There is a danger in having a large following on social media, whether it’s on here or birdsite.

People expect more from you, you have to be right always, you are tagged in conversations about you that aren’t meant to involve you(sub-toots, sometimes rly mean), you lose the ability to have casual conversations, your words are scrutinized and used against you.
People assume you’re too big to get hurt, that you can take more abuse, which is... ridiculous.

We’re all humans behind keyboards...


All this to say, take it easy... be understanding, and gentle if you can. Assume the best in others when they write, not the worst.

Also like, if you’re feeling irritable... maybe step away from the keyboard. Anger is terribly contagious.

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